By Jeanne Benedict

Some may raise an eyebrow at the union of these holidays into one big party, as there are fundamental differences, even contrasting beliefs between the faiths. But at the core of each religion, especially around the winter holidays of Christmas and Hanukkah, is a celebratory spirit that can be combined with a mutual respect and nod to each occasion's traditions, lore, and decor.



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Consider these tips to give guests an enriching experience at the celebration:

1. While many friends may know the origins and highlights of each holiday, there will be some guests that will only know the experiences of their childhood traditions.

2. A stack of index card size summaries for each holiday may not be a bad idea to help all feel "in the know" about each other's cultural and religious history such as the following descriptions.

3. Christmas is the Christian celebration of the birth of Jesus Christ.  Although there is no mention of the actual birthday in the bible, it is widely believed that Pope Julius I designated December 25 as the Feast of the Nativity.  Many believe the Christmas tree to be a symbol of life and the star topping most trees iconic of the star that led the magi (3 wise men) to baby Jesus in the manger where he was born.  Of course, Santa Claus is a huge part of Christmas and his act of giving presents can be a message of charity to all.  Stockings are hung by the chimney with care to be filled with trinkets from Santa and cookies and milk are left as a treat for the big guy in red to enjoy!

4. Hanukkah celebrates the Jewish spirit of survival and how the Maccabees battled to reclaim their Holy Temple in 2nd century BC from oppressors in Israel. This eight-day long holiday, known as the "festival of lights," is symbolized by lighting a menorah (a nine-branched candelabra) each night to commemorate the miracle that the one day's worth of lamp-oil left behind in the Holy Temple lasted for eight days.  In addition to lighting the menorah, celebrants exchange gifts, sing, play dreidel (a spinning-top game), and eat latkes (potato pancakes) and other fried foods as a reminder of the miracle of the oil.

5. Although Chrismukkah brings together significant holidays from two different faiths, the tone is lighthearted. Should a guest express discomfort about the notion of merging religious ideas, remind them of Seinfeld's "Festivus" and the spirit of coming together in celebration.   


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